Janet and I went to an expensive restaurant and when she was eating her salad, she noticed some gold words on the plate. It said, "Janet will you marry me?"
Two weeks later, when she came to visit, I asked her to make me some brownies. When she cracked open the egg, she found her wedding rings inside. It took me 10 hours to get the ring inside the egg.
When Janet was young and Princess Diana was in the news on a daily basis, people would often take a second look at Janet. They would look at Janet, then at a picture of Princess Diana in the magazines, and then look back at Janet. It was very comical. This happened all the time.
To make this phenomenon even more interesting, I have had many people say that I looked like Prince Charles. Personally, I do not see it.
A man at church would always bow and say, “Prince Charles.” In Japan, a woman at a restaurant looked at me and started speaking excitedly in Japanese. I couldn't understand her, but I did hear the words “Prince Charles.” A similar thing happened in Brazil. It also occurred three times in different locations in China. Even in Bali, Indonesia, someone approached us and said, “You guys look like Prince Charles and Princess Diana.”
We retired at a young age and moved to China to help the Chinese people. We were not part of a group; we went there at our own expense. I was 58 and Janet was 47. We were in China for 10 years. I’ll mention a few things that we did there.
We visited a very poor school in a different part of our province. One year Janet bought spring jackets for all 400 students. Another time she helped pay for new lights to be installed in the poor school. Many classrooms did not even have lights.
Several times she donated money to the school to be put in a slush fund. The slush fund was administered by the headmaster, and he could immediately provide the teachers and students the things they need without having to go through a committee.
For example, if a poor student did not have a warm coat in the winter, the teacher could buy one for the student. Or, if a student needed glasses, the teacher could buy the student glasses. As a chemistry and physics teacher in America, Janet knew that it is important to be able to quickly get money for important needs.
The bathrooms were just holes in the floor, so Janet started a project that resulted in new bathrooms being built in the school.
Chinese lose their teeth at a young age because of rampant gingivitis.
Over the 10 years, we gave our students almost 3,000 electric toothbrushes / Listerine mouthwash / floss.
We had a student who had skin falling off her hands and feet. We flew her to University of Michigan Hospital to see some of the best skin doctors in the world.
A student had problems with her teeth, so we paid for her to have a dentist put veneer on her front teeth.
As a result of her teaching skills and sacrifices, Janet was awarded and recognized many times throughout the 10 years.
We tried to give the college students a chance to relax from their busy schedule and give them a chance to experience some American culture.
Over the 10 years, we had 47 Thanksgiving meals. Each meal had about 30 to 35 students. In total, we served 94 turkeys.
Several times a year we would take some of my new students to a pizza restaurant. Usually, about 20 to 55 students would come to each meal.
In addition, we had about 4 or 5 large pizza parties a year at our apartment. We normally had about 100 to 150 students at each party and about 15 to 20 large pizzas (see the photos below).
We had many parties where the students could eat meals from different countries. For example, we had a big taco dinner party. This is the food that we got for the party.
I was able to teach the students some bad habits.
After 10 years in China, we had a tearful goodbye.
At the outbreak of COVID, we went to Bali Indonesia for three months. As China started to close down, we flew back to China.
We were stranded in China for about four years because of COVID. We had to be tested every morning at 6 am for almost the whole time.
We have traveled to about 35 different countries. Here are some photos of our travel.